Sofie Hagen: Fat is a neutral word I want us to reclaim it

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In her very first book, the Danish comic is requiring fat freedom and joy. She speaks about anti-capitalism, abuse and how her view of her body altered over night

S ofie Hagen no longer informs fat jokes. “I did at the start of my profession,” she states, a bit regretfully. “Nothing unfavorable, simply making fun of myself. I had one joke, where I stated something like: ‘I’m fat since I overindulge. Due to the fact that I have a lot of discomfort inside, and I overindulge. Like, for instance, right here'”– she indicates her cheek– “‘is a chicken bone I have not rather swallowed yet.'”

I laugh appreciatively, however was I expected to? “It’s actually a lose-lose circumstance,” she states. “I do believe there’s something effective in a fat comic showing up, calling and owning the phase out what the audience is currently believing. I do not make those jokes any more.”

Hagen has a various message now. For a number of years, the 30-year-old comic has actually been singing about what she refers to as society’s “deeply deep-rooted” anti-fat predisposition and the method it marginalises individuals, especially females. On social networks, she has actually highlighted fat fear in marketing campaign, undoubtedly bring in the attention of giants whose individual abuse can “last for days”.

Some of this abuse, in addition to the street harassment she withstands, includes in her acclaimed standup funny. Hagen’s regimens cover whatever from politics to boybands. Her outlook and voice– that of an uncomfortable millennial outsider– has actually drawn in a devoted fanbase of “eccentric feminist introverts, like me”, she states.

Hagen Hagen on phase at the Edinburgh celebration in 2016. Picture: Murdo Macleod/The Guardian

Her launching book, Happy Fat: Taking Up Space in a World That Wants to Shrink You, files her own experiences as a fat kid and grownup, from squashing weight-loss efforts that were constantly”95-98% most likely to stop working”, to dating males who were aiming to”go for a fat lady”. She discusses the issues of flying while fat (do you book 2 seats or run the risk of not having the ability to fly at all?); and the”hell”that is summertime, with warmer weather condition bringing chafing, sweat and the increased examination that leaves fat individuals feeling required to remain inside.

When we fulfill to talk about the book, I need to ask: does she actually desire me to explain her as fat?

“Yes! I desire us to recover the word fat, “she states.”I understand not everybody likes it. I utilized to state’obese’. Fat is a neutral word. It does not state bad or great if you look it up. I wish to eliminate the unfavorable associations, that’s why I put it in the title.”

Happy Fat blends narrative and political commentary, humour and harder minutes. There’s her story of checking out a theatre where all the seats had actually repaired armrests, and needing to be seated on a stool rather,”overlooking everybody, appearing like a lifeguard “. She blogs about how food was utilized to reveal both enjoy and penalty in her youth, maturing in Snders, Denmark, with her sis and mom. Hagen had little contact with her dad, however her maternal grandparents played a big function in her childhood, and she shuttled in between the house of her mom– who permanently had Hagen on a diet plan– to the house of her grandparents, who revealed love through sweet deals with and felt insulted if she didn’t consume.

These memories are blended with stats, clinical research studies and interviews with activists, painting a stunning image of fat-prejudice and its influence on wellness: one study, for example, which determined fat discrimination, discovered that 89% of fat individuals who had actually reduced weight would rather go blind than end up being overweight once again.

Hagen’s book likewise serves as a guide for ladies who are overweight or obese to discover joy and discover to accept that their body is– if not gorgeous– then, a minimum of, simply fine.

This last message is rather at chances with the present body positivity motion, which prompts everybody to like their body, whatever their shape or size. Hagen remembers speaking on a panel with a popular figure from the motion. Each time the panellist would state “love yourself”, the crowd would cheer and whoop, and Hagen would react: “Yes, however how?” Her concern just generated more mottos, more cheers– and no responses.

“Loving your body can feel difficult,” states Hagen, “and simply another thing to stop working at. You stop working at dieting, and after that you stop working at caring your body. And even if you like your body you may not like all of it the time.”

For Hagen, body neutrality, which concentrates on regard and approval of your body, instead of love, “is something that we can all go for and attain … It’s like my ears. I feel extremely neutral about my ears. I do not have excellent or bad things to state; they’re simply ears. And if I might seem like that about my entire body, that would be incredible. Specifically as whatever within body positivity is based upon appearances.”

So, for example, the increase of plus-size designs has actually been viewed as an indication of favorable modification. Hagen keeps in mind that even Tess Holliday– who is “in fact fat”, she states, compared to most other plus-size designs– “is still extremely gorgeous”.

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“People feel unpleasant discussing charm advantage, “she states, “however it belongs to this conversation.”

Aside from her size, Hagen notes, Holliday is standard. “She has a balanced face, she’s white, femme, able-bodied, long hair. It’s making fatness more tasty, however not actually altering anything.”

For Hagen, finding out to accept her body wasn’t a dragged out procedure; the modification came quickly. One day her university buddy Andrea asked her to think of where self-hating ideas originate from, and who benefits from them, and her entire point of view moved.

“I utilized to believe– obviously fat is unsightly, lazy, bad and dumb. I never ever questioned it. When Andrea stated: ‘You feel bad then you purchase more things, so they make cash,’ it clicked. Over night I stopped seeing it as a truth.”

This is the political centre of Happy Fat: the argument that fatphobia is an item of industrialism– created to keep us taking in diet plan items and wonder foods; and patriarchy– which requires females apply a difficult level of self-control around their appearances. She summarizes the argument with a Naomi Wolf quote: “A culture focused on female thinness is focused on female obedience.”

To challenge fatphobia is to challenge commercialism and to see fat individuals in the context of other marginalised groups. The concepts Hagen goes over originated from fat freedom, a grassroots motion that began in 1960s New York and the manifesto of which is consisted of in the book. This consists of a need for “equivalent access to products and services in the general public domain” and songs out as unique opponents “the so-called lowering markets [consisting of] diet plan books, diet plan foods and food supplements”.

Hagen states that when fat freedom ended up being body positivity, the motion ended up being more tasty to traditional culture. “Big clothes business can generate income by stating they’re body favorable which they accommodate all sizes, when they just deal with a size 22, and all individuals in their adverts are perfect-looking and white, other than for a little stomach.

“We can not keep repairing ourselves. We’re never ever informed to browse us. I’m doing panels asking: ‘How do I like myself?’ How about we do a panel with individuals who make [fatphobic] adverts and ask: ‘Why did you make that advert?'”

She consists of numerous examples of little acts of generosity throughout the book, consisting of the buddies who have actually dived in and conserved her when she is captured in a discussion with someone who informs her, unprompted, that being fat will eliminate her. There is the artist she dated, who, understanding she may have a hard time up the lots of stairs to his flat, stopped every flight for a kiss, to let her capture her breath.

Even the most well-meaning individuals and those who have actually suffered marginalisation themselves can have a predisposition versus fat individuals, she states. One example of how this plays out especially struck me: informing individuals they “do not look fat”. Hagen states this just serves to reject the individual’s experience. And it enhances the belief that fat is incorrect. I inform her I am guilty of it myself.

“We all make errors. It’s appealing to think about ourselves as excellent– and for that reason unable to be, state, transphobic or sexist– however we’ve all been raised in the very same society. The response is never ever going to be: ‘Oh, I’m not [discriminative], phew!,’ since that method we not do anything. We ought to be stating: ‘I am racist, I am homophobic, I am transphobic and I wish to do much better.'” She stops briefly prior to chuckling. “What a quote! I can see the piece now: Sofie Hagen states ‘I am racist.'”

Is it possible to discover joy in your body if you do not wish to dive into anti-capitalist politics?

“For me? No,” she states. “The politics was the piece de resistance. Politics offered me the desire to wish to combat this system so that other individuals do not need to combat it anymore.”

Happy Fat: Taking Up Space in a World That Wants to Shrink You is released by 4th Estate on 2 May. To buy a copy for 11.43, go to guardianbookshop.com . Sofie Hagen’s Bubblewrap, Happy Fat standup and book trip takes a trip the UK from 26 April to 15 June, sofiehagen.com

Read more: https://www.theguardian.com/stage/2019/apr/22/sofie-hagen-fat-is-a-neutral-word-i-want-us-to-reclaim-it

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